Why We All Have a Stake in Twisters’ Success

No one makes a movie in a vacuum. Even filmmakers working with the most micro of microbudgets want their films to be seen; movies are, after all, a mode of communication, a way of celebrating shared experiences or locating common ground amid differences. It’s no wonder filmmakers who make a big splash with a small film often want to stretch their horizons by working on a larger canvas, with a fatter budget and flashier stars, all in the service of speaking to us.

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One of the surprise indie hits of 2020 was Lee Isaac Chung’s Minari, an intimate, semi-autobiographical drama about a Korean American family struggling to establish a farm in rural Arkansas. Minari earned six Academy Award nominations; one of its stars, Youn Yuh-jung—as a swearing, card-playing Korean grandma—won for Best Supporting Actress. And its success brought Chung a golden opportunity: this summer sees the release of Twisters, his reimagining of Jan de Bont’s nature-gone-wild thriller Twister, from 1996. In Twisters, Daisy Edgar-Jones and Glen Powell play rival storm chasers tearing through Oklahoma’s Tornado Alley—though it turns out that even though she’s a serious-minded researcher and he’s a YouTube star, they have more in common than they think.

Twisters is a movie with a $200 million budget; Minari cost $2 million. That makes Chung just the latest in a long line of directors who have grabbed the chance to leap from low-key indie success to blockbuster attention grabber. More broadly, though, a big swing like this is a test of how we moviegoers feel about filmmakers as artists. Everyone loves an underdog hero. But what happens when a filmmaker sets their sights on a bigger project, one designed to reach a wider audience—and, ideally, to net a handsome payoff? Is that selling out or stepping up? And in a climate where movies designed to be viewed on the big screen face an uncertain future, is it an act of hope or an exercise in futility?

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People who watch lots of movies tend to treasure indie filmmakers. Unbowed by big-studio expectations, they’re often the people doing the most interesting work. That’s why we feel stung when a filmmaker appears to be selling out. Suddenly, somehow, they’re no longer on “our” side. As consumers of culture and everything else, we may be motivated by money—who isn’t, to some degree? But we expect purity from creative people.

In the world of moviemaking, that’s an idea that could hold us back—especially if we want smarter, better mainstream movies. Let’s take Rian Johnson, whose first feature, the 2005 teenage noir Brick, earned enough acclaim to allow him to make movies on an increasingly larger scale. On the ladder of big-ticket potential crowd pleasers, you can’t get much higher than a Star Wars film, and Johnson got his chance with the 2017 Star Wars: Episode VII—The Last Jedi. But hardcore fans of the series rebelled. Many felt he’d taken the story and the characters in the wrong direction. More insidious were fans’ complaints about what they called, to use a slippery and increasingly sinister word, the story’s wokeness. As Emily St. James wrote in a 2017 Vox article parsing fans’ complaints, the movie’s “millennial good guys are a young white woman, a black man, a woman of Asian descent, and a Latino man, while its millennial bad guys are two white dudes.” That didn’t sit well, she said, with a fandom that “has long been presided over by white guys.”

Though The Last Jedi performed well enough at the box office, it’s generally treated by fans as a Star Wars fail. But it’s a pretty terrific movie, an emotionally generous work with both a sense of humor about itself and a sense of joy. In other words, Johnson’s sensibilities shine through the template laid out by George Lucas nearly a half-century ago. If you care about the greater landscape of film, that’s exactly what you should want when a thoughtful director takes on a franchise property.

But the realities of modern big-ticket filmmaking aren’t for the faint of heart. Chloé Zhao’s austere, low-budget Nomadland won three Oscars in 2021, including Best Picture and Best Director. (The third award, for Best Actress, went to the movie’s star, Frances McDormand.) By that time, Zhao’s next movie, the Marvel entry Eternals—heavy on green-screen special effects and featuring a roster of stars including Gemma Chan, Angelina Jolie, and Salma Hayek—was already in the works. But when it was finally released, in November 2021, neither critics nor Marvel fans liked it. Part of the problem, Zhao suggested in a 2022 Empire interview, was that amid the pandemic, audiences weren’t in the mood for what she described as a film “about existential crisis, both for humanity and God.” That may sound like the understatement of the century, but Zhao was onto something. The ideas she cares about, and the intimate style of filmmaking that’s clearly her forte, were quite obviously at odds with the Marvel machine—though that’s Marvel’s problem, not hers. Sometimes indie filmmakers who stretch their wings learn plenty about the kinds of movies they don’t want to make.

For indie filmmakers who haven’t won an Oscar, a big movie can serve as a calling card in the greater world. Colin Trevorrow made his debut with the charming 2012 sci-fi comedy Safety Not Guaranteed, though his Jurassic World movies are what made him famous. And some filmmakers build a career by making increasingly ambitious films over several years. In the early 2000s, Greta Gerwig was one of DIY cinema maestro Joe Swanberg’s go-to performers. She hopscotched from mumblecore to directing the megahit Barbie, with Lady Bird and Little Women in between.

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Always, though, the big question is this: Can a director with a light touch, like Chung, bring his special sensibility to a bigger project—one that comes with outsize expectations attached? Studios—in Twisters’ case, Universal—have something to gain by hiring a Lee Isaac Chung to direct a big movie. His name brings cachet to a film that might otherwise be considered just another workaday blockbuster. And depending on how high your expectations are, Twisters is an engaging enough summer diversion. Chung knows he’s making a monster movie, one in which the chaos of nature reigns: he hints at this in big ways and small ones, with dashes of wit. (One tornado whirls toward a small-town movie theater that happens to have programmed a classic-monster-movie festival.) The special effects are regal and terrifying: at one point, twin twisters show up on the horizon, slender and dust-clouded at the bottom but fanning out, like Tiffany lily vases, at the top. There’s a great deal of driving, as the storm chasers zip around in search of their next conquest, and there are many, many shots of debris flying into the air and then, dangerously, clattering back to earth. That’s the reality of tornadoes; Twisters captures it, in places even incorporating footage of real-life twisters.

There are human stars, too, of course. Edgar-Jones’ Kate, much like Helen Hunt’s Jo in the original, is an Oklahoma-born weather scientist who has always dreamed of finding a way to lessen the severity of tornadoes and thus save lives. She meets her match in Powell’s swaggering Tyler, a cocky former rodeo rider from Arkansas—though in reality, he too is a science nerd who seeks to save lives.

Chung is an earnest filmmaker, and this is one area where his ideals may be a liability: it’s not enough for these characters just to obsessively chase down crazy weather; they must also spend the proper amount of time expressing angst over the damage it can do. Twisters is kind of a sweet movie, even as it invites us to relish the usual disaster-film stuff, like bodies being cruelly flung into the air and sucked into oblivion. Chung can’t fully resolve those two elements.

But there’s no doubt about his love for the movie’s setting. Minari was drawn from Chung’s experience: when he was a kid, his Korean-born parents moved the family from Atlanta to a small farm in rural Arkansas. Minari was shot in Oklahoma, as Twisters was, but it’s a corner of the world in which Chung feels completely at home. Even with its CGI’ed tornadoes, the landscape still feels visceral and vital, a wide-open expanse of red-dirt roads and skies streaked with melancholy-elegant gray clouds.

From an economic standpoint, of course it matters whether Twisters—which is expected to bring in $50 million to $55 million when it opens in North America this weekend—is a hit or not: you can hate the monolith known as the industry, but the sad reality is that anyone who cares about seeing movies on the big screen has a stake in that industry’s survival. At one point Kate stands in the center of a wind-ruffled plain, having detected an approaching storm. “Man,” she says, “I love Oklahoma!” That’s a big sentiment, just made to play out on a big screen. With Twisters, Chung puts all his faith in the big-screen idea, and in the staggering beauty of the open sky. Maybe that’s a gamble. Or maybe it’s just a way of looking up and out, a way of stretching the boundaries of what you thought you could do. And you can’t put a price tag on that.

source https://time.com/6999207/twisters-lee-isaac-chung-success/

Historians See Echoes of 1968 in Trump Assassination Attempt

Former President Donald Trump was named the Republican presidential nominee at the party’s convention this week, just days after surviving an assassination attempt at a campaign rally on July 13.

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How the assassination attempt affects Trump’s chances of reelection remains to be seen, but it’s not the first time that violence has roiled a major presidential election year. 

In 1968, two beloved figures in U.S. society were assassinated just two months apart: civil rights leader Martin Luther King, Jr. on April 4, 1968, and Democratic presidential candidate Robert F. Kennedy on June 5, 1968. That was five years after Kennedy’s brother, John F. Kennedy, the nation’s first Catholic president, had been assassinated on Nov. 22, 1963. In response, uprisings popped up across major U.S. cities, adding to a general climate of unrest, between worldwide student and labor strikes and demonstrations against the Vietnam War, which was growing increasingly unpopular. Thousands of anti-war protesters descended on Chicago for the August 1968 Democratic National Convention (DNC), railing against the party’s nominee Vice President Hubert Humphrey, who stood by President Lyndon B. Johnson’s moves to escalate the war.

Historians tell TIME that there are some echoes of 1968 in terms of what’s going on in America now versus then, but also some key differences.

The existential crisis that ties 1968 and 2024

Kennedy’s assassination shook up the 1968 presidential race. He was anti-war and one of the few Democratic candidates who was popular among both black voters and white working class voters, says Maurice Isserman, a professor of History at Hamilton College and expert on the 1960s social movements whose latest book is Reds: The Tragedy of American Communism. His assassination by Sirhan Sirhan, which came so quickly after King was killed, rattled the nation, and came at a time when there were increasing acts of violence on both the right and the left, building occupations, street confrontations.

“You can say that Sirhan Sirhan might very well have changed history by successfully assassinating Robert Kennedy, preventing him from being the Democratic nominee and likely prevailing in the fall,” Isserman argues.

Trump’s assassination attempt will not have the same effect, he argues: “This latest attempt was just that. It was an attempt. It was not successful, and it won’t change history.” While the attempt will bolster Trump’s popularity, he says voters should remember that the Republican party has, since 2015, been “building up a climate in which expressions citing violence have become the norm. On Saturday, the chickens came home to roost, as some clearly very disturbed young man, a registered Republican, decided to make his place in history by attempting to assassinate Donald Trump.”

But the existential crisis, the feeling that democracy is under siege, is a similarity between 1968 and 2024. 

“People are feeling like the country is coming apart at the seams. That’s exactly how it felt in 1968,” says Barbara A. Perry, a Professor of Presidential Studies at the University of Virginia’s Miller Center and co-editor of The Presidency: Facing Constitutional Crossroads. In 1968, voters saw the violence in the streets and voted for Richard Nixon because of a sense that he would “bring peace and law and order back to our country.”

Anti-war protests, then and now

As with today, war was a top political issue in 1968. Perry likens the anti-Vietnam war protests to the campus protests sparked by the Israel-Hamas war in 2024. But Lindsay M. Chervinsky, presidential historian and author of the forthcoming Making the Presidency: John Adams and the Precedents That Forged the Republic, points out that the Gaza and Vietnam demonstrations are on different scales. “The Vietnam War protests were much more all-encompassing in society because there was a draft.”

Michael Kazin, a professor of History at Georgetown University and author of What It Took to Win: A History of the Democratic Party, agrees that the Gaza protests have not divided the Democratic Party as much as the Vietnam War did, arguing, “If it did, you wouldn’t have people like Alexandria-Ocasio Cortez, Bernie Sanders, and Ilhan Omar supporting Joe Biden.”

Kazin, who was a member of Students for a Democratic Society (SDS), one of the leftist groups protesting at the Chicago DNC in 1968, says one similarity between the conventions is dissatisfaction with the nominee. And it remains to be seen whether the assassination attempt will persuade undecided voters to pick Trump or Biden. 

In 1968, there was a rise in youth political activism. There were calls for revolution, and leftist groups like the Black Panther party were rising up against the police. According to Chervinsky, “In 1968 there was this question about generational turnover—was it time for a new generation, or were the existing leaders going to continue to lead? There were all of these grassroots movements—civil rights, antiwar movements—and there have been a lot of those similar things in the last several years.

“There’s always been partisan division, since there have been political parties. It is, at times, much more strident, and that is something we’re seeing now.”

How America has historically gotten through national tumult

So how did America move on from the tumultuous year of 1968? 

Perry says Americans turned to the ballot box. After Nixon resigned over the Watergate scandal, his successor Ford’s controversial pardon of Nixon, and Carter’s unpopular one-term presidency, Perry thinks Americans found hope again in movie star Ronald Reagan, who was elected President in 1980 and served two terms 1981-1989.

“How do we get that mojo back? It’s Ronald Reagan,” says Perry. “His running for reelection in ‘84 with the ‘It’s morning again in America’ ad is positive. If you look at Gallup polls back then, there is a burst upward of Americans’ positive approval about federal government.” 

Other historians argue that we’re still living in 1968. “Many of the conflicts in the ‘60s are still with us, especially cultural ones—abortion, gay rights, feminism, racism,” says Kazin. As Isserman puts it, “We’re still very much living in the shadow of the ‘60s.”

source https://time.com/6999231/trump-shooting-parallels-history/

J.D. Vance’s Selection as Trump’s Running Mate Frightens Business Leaders

Two weeks ago, we wrote that business leaders are not flocking to GOP presidential frontrunner Donald Trump, with no Fortune 100 CEOs having donated financially to Trump this year—a pattern broken only now by Elon Musk’s pronouncement Monday. While we commendably saw a surge of statements of sympathy from business leaders in the hours following the despicable, horrendous assassination attempt on Trump this weekend, Trump’s selection of freshman Ohio Senator J.D. Vance once again emphasizes the vast gulf separating Trump from the business community, and reflects Trump’s most brazen anti-capitalist instincts.

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J.D. Vance was certainly not the business community’s favorite to be Trump’s VP by a long shot. Even several Republican CEOs I’ve spoken with are disappointed by the selection of Vance, and all of them would have strongly preferred any alternative, especially candidates such as Virginia Governor Glenn Youngkin and North Dakota Governor Doug Burgum, cut from more traditional pro-business GOP cloth. The Wall Street Journal just condemned the socially divisive Vance nomination as “curious,” explaining, “He opposes free-market policies Mr. Trump will need for economic renewal…. We suspect the White House is relieved he didn’t choose a more experienced and reassuring political figure.” Some top donors such as Ken Griffin and Rupert Murdoch even reportedly launched a last-second Stop Vance blitzkrieg in desperation. The only donors who have been in Vance’s corner are a small, insular circle of Silicon Valley personalities.

Of course, business leaders are hardly enthusiastic about Biden, with many of them finding especially objectionable the Biden Administration’s harsh antitrust enforcement, spearheaded by FTC Chair Lina Khan—but it is exactly these same anti-business parts of the Biden agenda which J.D. Vance wants to double down on. In February of this year, at a Bloomberg conference, Vance declared: “a lot of my Republican colleagues look at Lina Khan, and they say, ‘well Lina Khan is sort of engaged in some sort of fundamental evil thing.’ And I look at Lina Khan as one of the few people in the Biden Administration that I think is doing a pretty good job.” Vance recently joined forces with progressive colleagues such as Senator Elizabeth Warren to introduce bills ranging from the “Stop Subsidizing Giant Mergers Act” to efforts to break up big banks.

Read More: Why Trump Chose J.D. Vance

This marriage of the far right with the far left scares CEOs, who are not isolationist, protectionist, or xenophobic, and dislike regulatory overreach. Antitrust is only the tip of the iceberg; Vance’s expressed economic policy positions, which far outflank traditional Republican stances, sets off alarm bells in corporate boardrooms across the country.

Many of Vance’s economic policy stances amount to an American CEO’s worst nightmare; a smorgasbord of populist promises which will expand government’s reach into the economy, undermine global confidence, and subvert free markets. 

In particular, business voices have expressed alarm at Vance’s repeated support for protectionist tariffs, an echo of Trump’s own calls for 10% tariffs on everything coming in the U.S. from any country. Sixteen Nobel Prize-winning economists have warned that inflation would be turbocharged by up to 10% per some estimates if these tariffs are enacted. 

In some areas, Vance’s views are far more radical than Trump’s. Vance is on record supporting higher taxes on corporations, advocating “no more subsidies to the anti-American business class” and declaring “it’s time America wages war on companies.” Likewise, Vance is enthusiastic about devaluing the dollar; his claims that devaluation is not as scary as it seems do not land well with business leaders, who are dependent on the strength of the dollar as the world’s reserve currency to reach vast global markets.

For many business leaders, to know Vance is not to love him. 

Vance’s first boss Steve Case has rushed to distance himself from Vance, while Vance’s other early boss, Peter Thiel, has pledged not to donate a single penny to Trump this year. Another early mentor of Vance’s, Mitt Romney, once mused, “I don’t know that I can disrespect someone more than J.D. Vance… How do you sit next to him at lunch?”

Read More: “That’s Bad”: Ukrainians Fear What J.D. Vance Could Do As Vice President

CEOs are not isolationists and were alarmed by Vance’s disdain for Ukraine’s plight and E.U. fears, which he expressed at the Munich Security Conference in March, stating, “I really don’t care what happens to Ukraine.” Over 1,200 major western companies pulled out of Russia over Putin’s bloody invasion of Ukraine, which threatened sovereign stability and the rule of law.

President Joe Biden reacted to Vance’s selection by calling him a “clone” of Trump, but to many in the business world, Vance might be worse than a Trump clone – he is Trump’s id, drawing out all of Trump’s most anti-business instincts without any of Trump’s dealmaking instincts. The biggest beneficiary may be Biden, who ought to be celebrating Vance’s selection as proof that the self-destructive version of Trump is re-remerging on the campaign trail.

source https://time.com/6999104/jd-vance-trump-business-community-separation/

Ukrainians Fear What J.D. Vance Could Do As Vice President

A fresh wave of worry spread through Ukraine on Monday as news from the Republican National Convention crossed the Atlantic. Senator J.D. Vance, a diehard opponent of American aid to Ukraine, had been selected as Donald Trump’s running mate, and the Ukrainians realized what his rise could mean for their war against Russia.

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“That’s bad,” one fixture of Kyiv’s foreign policy circles wrote in a text message, adding a screenshot of Vance’s past claims in the media—all unsubstantiated—that Ukrainian officials might use American assistance to “buy a bigger yacht.” Another former official under President Volodymyr Zelensky put it this way: “Now Ukraine must be especially careful about its words and actions.”

Given Vance’s record and his rhetoric about Ukraine, it’s far from clear that Zelensky can do much to win him over. The bad blood between the two men goes back at least to the fall of 2023, when Vance began a concerted effort to block U.S. aid for Ukraine.

That October, with the outbreak of war in Israel, the first-term Senator from Ohio said it was clear the U.S. had “overcommitted resources and attention to Ukraine,” and it needed to cut its losses. “A new aid package only threatens to set our readiness back even further,” he wrote in a column for The Hill.

About two weeks later, Ukraine’s top military commander announced in an interview with The Economist that the war had reached a stalemate, and there would likely be “no deep and beautiful breakthrough” against Russia’s defensive lines. The news from the front led Vance to adjust his message. He began urging Kyiv to accept the loss of land in exchange for peace, effectively freezing the front line and leaving Russia in control of the territory it had occupied.

Zelensky refused to accept such an outcome. “We would just leave this wound open for future generations,” Zelensky told TIME in an interview last fall. “Maybe it will calm some people down inside our country, and outside, at least those who want to wrap things up at any price. But that’s a problem, because we are left with this explosive force. We only delay its detonation.”

Instead Zelensky kept pushing for more assistance. In December, he traveled to Washington to argue for a fresh package of U.S. aid worth over $60 billion, which had been stuck in Congress for months. Even among Republican critics of the aid on Capitol Hill, Vance stood out for his unwillingness to budge. He rejected the argument that most of the money would go to U.S. arms manufacturers, thus benefitting the U.S. economy. “War is not a business venture,” he wrote in a letter to the Washington Post in December, “and the United States is more than just an economy.”

Two months later, as the aid remained stuck in Congress, Zelensky shot back during an interview with CNN. “I’m not sure he understands what’s going on here,” he said when the interviewer asked him about Vance’s opposition on Ukraine. “We don’t need any rhetoric from people who are not deeply in the war.” If Vance wanted a proper understanding of the stakes in Ukraine, Zelensky invited him to visit the front line. Out there, he added, it might become clear that “millions of people will be killed” without American assistance.

Vance never accepted the invitation. He did not even agree to meet with Zelensky when both men attended a security summit in Munich this winter. “I didn’t think I would learn anything new,” Vance explained. His efforts to block the aid for Ukraine ultimately failed. The package passed with large majorities in the House and the Senate this spring.

But now, as Trump’s running mate, Vance’s influence over U.S. policy will only grow, and that carries “enormous risks for Ukraine in 2025,” says Oleksandr Kharebin, a political analyst in Kyiv who advised Zelensky’s presidential campaign. “With a vice president like that, Trump’s plan to force peace terms on Ukraine is starting to look like a confirmed strategy” for his second term.

Others in Kyiv put on a brave face, hoping Vance’s policies might not match his rhetoric if he and Trump win in November. “Campaigning is almost always different from policies,” says Iuliia Mendel, who served as Zelensky’s press secretary during the first two years of his presidential tenure. “A lot will also depend on Ukraine’s professionalism.”

Zelensky’s office did not respond to questions about Vance on Tuesday. But one senior official in his government said that, regardless of the outcome of the November elections, Ukraine will need to win the support of anyone who occupies White House. “We can’t bet on the individuals,” the official said, asking not to be named in discussing a sensitive issue of foreign policy. “We just have to respect the institution.”

source https://time.com/6999083/thats-bad-ukrainians-fear-what-j-d-vance-could-do-as-vice-president/

The Danger of Treating Politics Like War

“We’re going to defeat Crooked Joe Biden,” Donald Trump promised his rally crowd in Butler, Pa., “and we’re going to take back our country. We’re going to take it back. Our country, our country has been stolen from us. One of the greatest crimes is what they’ve done over the last four years!” Then as Trump railed against immigration, a shooter perched on a nearby rooftop sprayed bullets at the rally crowd, wounding Trump’s ear, killing one crowd member, and sending two more people to the hospital in critical condition.

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Astoundingly, as Trump left the stage surrounded by Secret Service, he pumped his fist and yelled, “Fight, fight, fight!” The crowd then chanted “U-S-A!”

America is often a violent nation. Our history is filled with lynchings, assassinations, and mass shootings—we are violent in both public and private spaces. But our current political moment is characterized by violence masquerading as politics. Since the 1990s the dominant frame for understanding American politics is “politics is war and the enemy cheats.” Our political news is dominated by appeals of outrage, accusations of corruption and hypocrisy, and charges of conspiracy. All of that violent rhetoric threatens the fragile trust upon which democracy and political stability thrive.

Read More: How the Attempted Assassination of Donald Trump Fits Into America’s Violent History

Politics is for solving problems through consensus, cooperation, and compromise, but our public sphere is broken. Violence is always anti-democratic because it’s the use of force instead of persuasion.

To call politics war cheapens the sacrifices made by actual soldiers and turns our political opponents from good people (who have good reasons for wanting different policies) to enemies (who have no redeeming qualities and must be destroyed).

Unfortunately invoking violence has a great deal of rhetorical power, which is why so much of our political discourse is saturated with the language of brutality. Throughout American history, and especially over the past 10 years, political leaders have found that ad hominem attacks are useful for delegitimizing and creating hate-objects out of others, that threats of force and intimidation are useful for silencing opponents, that violent metaphors attract attention, and that fear motivates voters.

But it’s not just figures such as Trump who have turned our public sphere into a Hobbesian “war of all against all.” Research in media studies, psychology, sociology, and other fields has established that media (print, radio, television, cable, podcasts, etc.) overrepresent crime news and other kinds of crime content. Our social media apps are designed to optimize for engagement, which means that highly emotive “moralized content” and “fake news” circulate more frequently than good old boring truth. Consuming all of that crime content leads to people cultivating what researchers call a “mean world syndrome,” in which they overestimate how likely they are to be victims of crime.

Read More: A Stark Look at the Recent History of Political Violence in America

While we have a long history of violence, the United States is actually a pretty safe place to be. According to FBI statistics, violent crime in the U.S. had been steadily declining since its peak in 1991 and it’s still near record lows. And yet “mean world syndrome” may help explain why, according to Gallup, a record 95% of Republicans “think there is more national crime” today. Everybody—but especially conservative news consumers—think they live in a mean world full of enemies. People are scared by the media and politics information they consume, and they’ve bought lots of guns.

Trump has built his political persona with a hero narrative that claims that he has risked everything to save the nation. As I explained in my book Demagogue for President: The Rhetorical Genius of Donald Trump, Trump ran in 2016 by telling the nation a story of sin and redemption—he claimed that because he was once “the ultimate insider,” he knew how the system was rigged and he was the only one qualified to fix it. His 2024 campaign has been built around the themes of persecution and revenge—he claims in a frequently used meme that “they’re not after me, they’re after you. I’m just in the way” and has vowed to seek “retribution” against his political enemies.

It may make good political sense to campaign on those kinds of violent themes, but it doesn’t help the cause of democracy in America. It certainly doesn’t help us to solve political problems to think of our opponents as enemies who are out to get us. Instead it helps to cultivate outrage, erode trust and fellow feeling, and increase the potential for actual violence. 

“We are not enemies, but friends,” Abraham Lincoln said in his first inaugural address. “We must not be enemies. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection.” Though politicians and the media may tell us differently, politics is not war, war is war.

source https://time.com/6998601/trump-rally-shooting-rhetoric-political-violence/

Why We Stay in Jobs We Love to Hate

In the discussions I have with my clients regarding their feelings about their jobs, a range of factors have emerged that have a direct influence on how we feel about the places we work. Factors that lead to hating one’s job include bad managers, overwork, boredom, stress, lack of balance, difficult co-workers, office politics, lack of adequate compensation, lack of growth—the list goes on.

On the other hand, if at least some of these factors have checkmarks in the positive column, the result may provide enough justification to rationalize staying in place,  but not enough to overcome the feeling of stuck-ness. The love word emerges often, love for co-workers, love for the manager, maybe even love for the free gourmet lunches.

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As I have these conversations, I am often reminded of a quote from Sigmund Freud: “Love and work are the cornerstones of humanness.”  Work is essentially transactional: You do your job, you demonstrate your productivity, you contribute to the organization’s mission, and you get paid. Love, on the other hand, is experienced it in various forms, and we are wired as humans to seek love. But matters of the heart are anything but transactional. 

Here’s where it gets complicated: Humans have an innate need to love or, as I often say, to have their love button pushed. Including at work. So love and work can become intertwined in ways that may not be emotionally healthy. 

Why this internal love-hate conflict? For one, we humans have a fear of the unknown. The expression, “the devil you know” comes to mind. We look to emotional connection ( love) as a means of providing stability and certainty to our lives. Emotional connection with one’s leader or co-workers, or other creature comfort benefits, may be just enough to prevent running for the exits. Fear of uncertainty is also expressed as denial in the form of optimism that things have to get better so let’s stick it out. You love me, so you can’t leave me. I love you, so I can’t leave you.

The risk of staying stuck in a love-hate job, without coming to some form of internal resolution or moving on, is sitting with a lot of uncomfortable feelings. Resentment. Anger. Inertia. Setting oneself up for failure. As intensely as we can love, we can also hate as intensely. Sitting with love and hate in competition with each other can leave us immobilized. 

Can’t I get some closure?

As I talk with my clients about their love-hate relationships with their jobs, they often talk about wanting some kind of closure in the form of finally saying what they need to say, finally being fed up enough to walk, finally being treated the way they deserve. Finally.

Closure comes with risks. When you tell another person how you feel about the way they have treated you, they may give you the closure you are hoping for. They may agree with you, ask you how they can rectify things between you. Instant reset! Or they may not agree with you and point out what they see as your failures. Or they may gaslight you, and tell you everything if fine and aren’t you being a little bit dramatic? They may even tell you it’s time for the two of you to part ways.

Read More: Why People Really Quit Their Jobs—and How Employers Can Stop It

Wanting closure is a human need. We are not wired for uncertainty, and we don’t like sitting with uncomfortable feelings and loose ends in communication. Wanting closure but also fearing it keeps us stuck in bad relationships of all kinds, including our relationships with our workplace.

Fear of what closure might mean can result in continuing to stay stuck in a love-hate job. By the same token, waiting for that moment of perfect closure—Vindication! Revenge! Validation!—can perpetuate the cycle of frustration and discontent.

Love and work

To be honest, I often feel concerned when a client uses the love word in relation to their job.  I love my work. I love my company. I love my co-workers. I love my boss.

Our jobs often touch our love buttons. That is human nature. Receiving money can feel a lot like being loved. But when love enters the picture, our expectations for our jobs are ratcheted up in direct proportion. Is it really love? That endorphin rush we get when love is involved can in turn raise our expectations for what we should be giving and receiving from our jobs. 

Sure, it is only human to form connections with the people we work with. And hopefully to enjoy the work we do. Work satisfaction is validating, as are the relationships we form.  Humans need validation. And to equate being given interesting work, prestige, or great benefits with love. 

But is that really love?  It can sure feel like it. 

When work presses our love button, we risk having expectations that result in questions like: Don’t I deserve more? I’ve given everything here, don’t you care about me?  Aren’t I important to you? Don’t I deserve an explanation? Don’t you care about how I feel?

High expectations have consequences. As the expectations around love are ratcheted up, so is the potential for feeling hate when love feels unreturned or undeserved or otherwise thwarted.

This leads to the need for closure. And the cycle continues. That is, until you decide to ask yourself the really hard question: What’s really keeping me here?  And is it time to commit to staying or is it time to move on? 

The power of realistic expectations

At the end of the day, work is a transaction. You bring your skills to the organization. The organization pays you for your time and skills. Sure, providing a comfortable environment, a salary commensurate with your background and skills, policies that promote teamwork and positive interaction—all help to make the workday go more smoothly, and even with a measure of emotional satisfaction. Organizations benefit greatly when they promote the emotional wellness of their employees. And experience consequences when they don’t. 

But this isn’t love. It’s a social contract. For better or worse, that check at the end of each pay period defines the foundation of your relationship. It’s that simple.

This begs the question: are there options for getting unstuck? Absolutely. I encourage my clients to get specific with themselves on what they love and what they hate about their jobs. To define for themselves what keeps them there and what causes them unhappiness. And to consider their options. For example, can you make changes at work in terms of responsibilities or management? This might mean adding new challenges or moving to a different team. Or, is it time to consider taking the risk of moving to a new organization? And here’s another option: What would it mean to consider shifting your perspective on your job to focus on the upside, what your job brings to your life and what you appreciate about it?

Having realistic expectations is a key to satisfaction in life. As well as the key to finding successful closure when things don’t go as expected. Have realistic expectations about your workplace and your job. This is real empowerment.

From THE POWER OF CLOSURE by Gary McClain, PhD, published by TarcherPerigee, an imprint of Penguin Publishing Group, a division of Penguin Random House, LLC. Copyright © 2024 by Gary McClain.

source https://time.com/6998594/stuck-in-love-hate-jobs-essay/

Kate Middleton Receives Standing Ovation at Wimbledon Amid Ongoing Cancer Treatment

LONDON — The Princess of Wales arrived at the All England Club on Sunday for the Wimbledon men’s final, only her second public appearance since announcing she was diagnosed with cancer.

Kate, wife of heir to the throne Prince William, was greeted by a standing ovation from the Centre Court crowd as she took her seat in the Royal Box before the start of the championship match between Novak Djokovic and Carlos Alcaraz.

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She and her 9-year-old daughter, Princess Charlotte, got to the site of the grass-court Grand Slam tournament in southwest London in a motorcade about a half-hour before the final was scheduled to begin. They went to a terrace at the club that is connected to the main stadium by a pedestrian walkway and greeted several people, including 2021 U.S. Open champion Emma Raducanu and other young British tennis players.

Kate was wearing a purple dress — one of Wimbledon’s official colors.

She was joined in the front row of the Royal Box by her sister Pippa Matthews. Two rows behind them were actors Tom Cruise and Benedict Cumberbatch, while a number of former Wimbledon champions were also on hand — including Rod Laver, Andre Agassi and Stefan Edberg.

Since 2016, the princess has been the patron of the All England Club, which hosts Wimbledon each year. Her ceremonial duties include handing out the winner’s trophies after the singles finals, although she was not on hand Saturday when Barbora Krejcikova defeated Jasmine Paolini for the women’s title.

Kate revealed in March that she has cancer and was undergoing chemotherapy. Her lone public appearance since then was attending last month’s birthday parade for King Charles III. Before that event, she released a statement saying she was “making good progress” but still had “good days and bad days.”

Prince William has been a regular at Wimbledon finals but was not going to be there Sunday. Instead, he planned to go watch England face Spain in the final of the men’s soccer European Championship in Germany. He is the president of the English Football Association.

Queen Camilla, wife of King Charles III, visited Wimbledon on Wednesday.

source https://time.com/6998363/kate-middleton-public-appearance-wimbledon-cancer-treatment/